In the clinic…
Just before the patient put her butt on the chair.
“Ya, sakit apa?”
said the doctor. And the patient replied,
“Sakit hati when you say that.”
I understood that it is a typical question and we might even do the same thing. Just think about it.
Rough Fee 
I was randomly reading your posts, and this one caught my attention. Understandably, as it relates to my future career. I gave it a thought as you suggested, and concluded its the nature of the job to ask that. Cant blame them, can you?
Xyra, I understand the situation. Perhaps you miss why I wrote the line… "her butt on the chair." A courtesy of letting the patient to settle down would be much appreciated. There is no harm in waiting. 🙂
Lol, you meant the timing. I thought it was the wrong question.